Tessa Custers

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Female Sexuality and Intimacy Coach

Wynberg, Cape Town

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061 207 1951


About:

hello, I am Tessa
I have been there. Big time. Feeling stuck in life, disconnected from my body. I was terrified to feel and I thought that by ignoring the signals of my body they would go away eventually. Luckily they did not.

Deep inside, without knowing on a conscious level I was so scared of intimacy. Being intimate with the partner I dreamed of, but didn’t cross my path. And first and foremost scared of being intimate with myself. 

It was only when my body shut down completely that I started to go within. A journey that started over 10 years ago, and through therapy, bodywork and lots and lots of practices, I started to see and feel that I had ignored my Feminine. For so so long… The yin energy that wanted to flow through my system so badly. The sacred, free, wild, intuitive and sensual Feminine. My emotions wanted to be liberated, my inner child wanted to be healed and held, my female lineage begged me to put a stop to years and years of suppression and generational shame of the sexy, vulnerable and alive Feminine.

Eventually it was my yoni who started to speak to me. I couldn’t ignore the signs anymore that she wanted to be loved. For all her dark, and all her light.

And that is where things really started to shift. I felt powerful enough to make choices that were long overdue, I learned the art of true surrender and how life flows when I dare to give in. I started moving my body in ways that I did not know were possible, I allowed her to move in her wild and free way. My sexuality and yoni opened, freed from shame, orgasms deepened and I started to own my birthright of feeling PLEASURE and ALIVE. I feel all my feels, know how to move them, how to express them. I love love love my body and I honor my yoni. She knows, and She is the gateway to my sacred soul. 

My journey prepared me in a deep and embodied way to take others on a beautiful, tailor-made journey to re-disover their sexuality and to re-remember what it is to be a free and peaceful human being. I work with women and couples, and offer 1:1 coaching packages and group programs. Check out my website and Instagram for more information, and reach out if you have any questions!

QUALIFICATIONS

  • VITA™ Coaching Major Female Sexuality 

  • VITA™ Coaching Major Relationship Transformation

  • VITA™ Coaching Core Certification 2019 (600hr)

  • Thai Yoga Massage & Meridian Massage 

  • Yin Yoga & Anatomy (200hr)

  • Partner Yoga (150hr)

  • Asthanga Vinyasa Yoga (200hr) 

  • Master in Sociology (with focus on sexuality) 

  • Bachelor in Communications